tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5331876727336289116.post811033851187760145..comments2023-10-07T07:18:03.450-07:00Comments on girlfriend of a sex addict... my recovery: objectifying women'Julia'http://www.blogger.com/profile/13982693145891220434noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5331876727336289116.post-34338866390168790422012-11-12T12:54:04.380-08:002012-11-12T12:54:04.380-08:00Hi there, I recently found your blog. It has been...Hi there, I recently found your blog. It has been helping me cope with my situation. I was wondering if you are still in this relationship? Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05876265335564507383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5331876727336289116.post-4299147936731600942011-06-11T15:21:54.443-07:002011-06-11T15:21:54.443-07:00"I know if we had been walking together he wo..."I know if we had been walking together he would have checked her out and I would have felt like crap because "<br /><br />If you don't mind me gently mentioning, with all the compassion in my heart, it sounds like YOU were the one checking her and you felt like crap... without him even being there, regardless of if he looked or not, regardless if he commented or not.<br /><br />And, again with an attempt to be very gentle, loving and heart-felt, there may be something about how YOU perceive your own value, worth, or function in the world that relates to feeling so awful when you pass a pretty young woman.<br /><br />And, to take it just one last step further, hopefully in a way that can let you imagine that if we were in each other's presence it might be like I was gently supporting your hand/arm as I spoke, that might possibly -- might not, but possibly might -- have been a pre-existing condition (meaning, you had it before you met HIM) that impacted your choosing HIM, who turned out to have issues with sex addiction.<br /><br />Or, of course, it's totally possible I'm all wrong and if so please just roll your eyes and not take offense at my error.Jayne Doughhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08905811493542579887noreply@blogger.com